Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner

My Grandma at 88 on a Stability Ball.

Life and age can alter our perspective.  Years ago when my grandma was in her eighties, she hired a man to paint her house.  When talking to my mom, she would say that the “kid” kept taking breaks while he painted.  My mom pictured a kid slacking off, but then one day she was at my grandma’s house when the painter was there and the “kid” was in his sixties.  He may have thought or felt old, but my grandma, twenty years his elder, didn’t see it that way.

Recently, I was asking my grandma questions about her life.  One question was, “Who would you most like to have for dinner?”  Her response was, “Right who I have now.  My family.”  What is so spectacularly wonderful about that comment is that she actually has exactly what she wants.

When I responded to the same question, I wanted Mark Twain, Ben Franklin, or one of my dead ancestors that I never got to meet.  The people I would like to host will never come to dinner at my house.  My instinct was to reach for impossibility, while my grandma’s instinct was to enjoy exactly what she had.  I didn’t even opt for a living, breathing human being—someone that might actually come one day.

I’m not sure if our different responses come from age or our generations.  Maybe when she was my age her response would have been the same as it is today.  Either way, I’m making a note, to remember to be happy with what I have and enjoy the actual world around me.  In all our dreams and wishes, which are wonderful to have, sometimes it’s easy to miss just how good we have it right now.

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Maggie Downie
Thank you for giving your time to stop and read my blog. I hope it encourages you to keep moving. Move and the body will be happier. And when you're moving you can hike, run, swim in Jell-O, race over non-Newtonian fluids, travel the world or build igloos--if that's your thing. If not, you can watch me do it. This is just a spot to try and feel good about life.


  1. Angela DeMichele-Solak November 7, 2018 at 8:07 am - Reply

    Maggie I think you do a wonderful job of keeping your family in the forefront

    • Maggie Downie
      Maggie Downie November 7, 2018 at 10:08 am - Reply

      Angela–thank you for reading. I’m lucky I have them!

  2. Deborah Bax January 9, 2019 at 4:12 pm - Reply

    There is something to be said for accepting and being grateful for what we have. Grandma is a special lady who teaches by example.

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